Having an orgasm during sex can be hard to acheive for many women. With factors like the orgasm gap and people soley relying on penetrative sex, it’s no wonder many women have terrible reaching their big “O”. Even though it’s still possible to enjoy sex without an orgasm, most people prefer the icing with the cake. To help you climax more frequently during sex, here are five sex positions to try and see which one works best for you.
Before you get started, remember to always use LUBE. Adding some lubricant to your sex can enhance the pleasure. Momentum Hybrid lube is the best of both worlds with this water and silicone-based personal lubricant. That allows you to enjoy long-lasting slipperiness without the unnatural, sticky feel.
- Revamped Missionary
If you don’t usually orgasm from penetration alone, this is a good position to try. Begin in the missionary sex position, on your back with your partner on top of you. Have them pull their body up towards your head so that their pelvis is slightly higher than yours. Instead of thrusting in and out, have them try a gentle grinding action against your pelvis to help stimulate your clit , which provides direct stimulation that some women need to reach orgasm.
- Downward Doggy
Start on your hands and knees as your partner kneels behind you, holding onto your hips as they thrust in and out. To change the angle of penetration, get down on your elbows. The intensity of this position also allows for G-spot stimulation. You could also try using your hands to rub your clit or have your partner reach around with their hand and do the same.
- The Bridge
This is another position that is perfect for reaching orgasm. Lay on your back as your partner kneels in front of you. While on your back, bend your knees and place your feet flat on the bed, then arch your hips up towards the ceiling so you’re in a low bridge. Your partner can then enter the space between your legs, holding your hips to use them as leverage.
- Reverse Cowgirl
Straddle your partner just like you would in regular cowgirl but backwards with you facing their feet. As you move up and down in a rhythmic pace, lean forward for a different angle, depth of penetration and sensation. If you want a bit of a twist, you can lean backwards using your hands to balance. To create more sensation, have your partner run their fingers down your back or reach around and caress your chest and clit as they move in and out of you.
- Sideways Spoon
As well as being cute and intimate, as your partner will be cuddling you from behind, this is one of the easiest positions for dual stimulation. Lie on your sides with your partner behind you so that you’re both facing the same direction, as you push your bum towards them. As they enter you, your partner can easily reach around and stimulate your clitoris. For some extra stimulation, ask them to gently press a vibrator to your favorite spots.